"Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen."
Sir Winston Churchill
AN EXERCISE IN COURAGE
I am a history buff and have always loved that quote. Listening seems sometimes to be a lost art. Think of how many people in your everyday encounters really listen to what is being said to them. Truthfully, every now and then I find myself zoning out while thinking ahead to other things on the horizon when I am in conversation with someone. It's a really horrible thing born of always being in a rush and trying to be a step ahead. I find I do this way more than I should, kick myself a few times and get back on track. I do this a lot with my kids. I get really impatient for them to get to the point. But guess what? If I'm not really listening I miss the point!
I hate to admit that I have done this with a client or two in the past. In business this can be a real killer. What is your client really saying to you? Are you so jazzed in presenting yourself and your service that you run over them with a steamroller of facts and statistics? I think this was my biggest mistake when I first began talking with potential clients. I was so eager to sell my service that I didn't really listen, I mean really listen. I reviewed the conversation in my head, thought of things I should have said and then stopped dead cold. I realized what I missed and should have said because I wasn't really listening. Has this happened to you before?
Listening to things we may not want to hear falls into this category also. How does service improve or business grow if one is not open to listening to constructive criticism or alternative ideas? I have gotten some great input for my business by listening to clients and mentors. Sometimes listening to things not so pleasant but none the less valuable.
I am not saying anything new here. Listening is first and foremost the most important part of any business arsenal. Unfortunately it can seem rare in today's hurry up world. How many times have you felt rushed at a visit with your doctor? How about the clerk that is speaking on the phone while trying to wait on customers? Do I want someone having that recollection of my business or service? Would you?
Reminding myself to listen effectively is an exercise I must do on a daily basis. An exercise that brings great rewards to me, my business and most importantly my clients. Who knows who will be listening to them after I have long left the scene.
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